TAKE RISKS, GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

Lately, I’ve been getting calls from people wanting to know how can they live a more successful life.  The truth is we can never live a successful life if we are afraid of failing. In life we must get out of our comfort zones and take risks in order to achieve happiness and success. Hopefully, the words in the next few paragraphs will help those seeking to achieve their goals to take the correct actions to do so.

 

  “Everyone wants security in life, but what constitutes security?  How long does it last?  Is there really even such a thing?

    Many people stay in jobs they dislike because it offers them financial security. They can’t wait for the weekend to come so they can get a break from their jobs – yet they will let thoughts of returning to their jobs ruin their weekend. The need for comfort and security, and the fear of not having it, causes people to settle – but placing yourself in a box is not really living at all. It places limits on what you can do. Being too comfortable stunts our growth – and can cause us to miss out on many of life’s greatest pleasures.  

    Living is much more enjoyable when you’re doing something that you love.  In fact, that is the difference between simply having a job and having a career. Getting out of one’s comfort zone and taking risks allows people to use their natural instincts, hone their survival skills and know their limits.  Being brave enough to face your fears will not only enable you to excel in life but also to discover who you truly are.

    Don’t be afraid to fly.  Many of us go along simply doing what society expects of us. Unfortunately this makes us just dreamers – not people who are following their dreams. If you want to become a singer, basketball player, doctor, lawyer, or entrepreneur – do it, don’t think about it.  Don’t worry about your money situation, or what people will think or say.  Just take the risk and you will find that your survival instincts will come alive to guide you.  At first, money may be tight – but you will get by fine and the money will come.  The main thing is to remember that money does not bring true happiness.  It helps us in many ways, but it means nothing if you’re not being true to yourself.

    Another reason people don’t take risks is because they care too much about what someone else may think.  This is just an excuse for not trying. News for you, the people that love you are going to love you regardless of what you do. The people who truly love you only want you to be happy.   The fact of the matter is that we let money, and what others think of us, control our lives to the point that our lives are not ours anymore.

“It’s a Bitter Sweet Symphony this life,

Trying to make ends meet,

You’re a Slave to MONEY then you die,”

(Lyrics from Bitter Sweet Symphony / The Verve)

    Stop complaining that you’re stuck in a dead-end job and do something about it.  Be about it, dream about it, do it and live it.  Stop saying, “I will try” – either do it or don’t.  Stop saying “if” and start saying “when.”  Realize that there are going to be many hard times and sacrifices, but that is what life is made of.  If you are going to have to go through hard times (and we all inevitably do) then you might as well do it for something you love.  

    We all have the choice to lead or follow, be the leader.  Remember that people in worse positions than you took the initiative to become who they wanted to be – and succeeded. The winners are those that desire to fly so badly that they don’t fear falling out of the sky. The only true failure is not giving it a shot.  No matter what comes your way, know that you are going to be okay – because you are giving your all – and life rewards that.”  – TAKE RISKS, GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

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The piece above is from my first book You Ain’t Hungry Until I’m Starving. 

 

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Here’s to the New You/New Me.

It’s a New Year, time for new resolutions and chants of “New Year, New Me”. Time to leave old friends in the past and to complain about how bad last year was. I never subscribed to any New Year new attitude and resolutions. I always subscribed to setting daily goals and daily changes so my life can be better overall. I’m not trying to say I’m better than anyone or their approach is wrong and mine is right. I’m just saying what works for me.

To me everyday we should self-reflect and work on self-discovery. This way there aren’t any bad years, only years of learning and growth. Obviously, there will be bad days and unpleasant moments in life; however, these moments or days shouldn’t define an entire year.

2017 was a year I lost several childhood friends to death, I saw the end of my five-year relationship with my daughter’s mother, I lost so-called friends, and I fell on some challenging times; however, like Big Sean, I bounced back. In each situation I learned something and I valued the things I had even more. I could have blamed everyone else for my issues, I could’ve stayed in denial about certain things but the only way to learn and bounce back is to be accountable for your actions and your life. We all have to remember that we aren’t always right or victims.

Through my most recent situations I learned who are my true friends and who are only there when they’re in need or want something. I could be mad at those who only come around when everything is going well and disappear when I’m unable to help them, but why waste unnecessary energy being upset. I chose to use my energy by focusing on things that will benefit me in my life. Instead of being mad at these people, I just thank them for showing me who they are. I distance myself from them and I love them from afar. I learned my lesson of how I have to stop making these people a priority over my responsibilities, goals, and obligations.

In 2017, I also learned how to say no to people and if they don’t like it it’s their issue and not mine. I live by the principle, “ I don’t bother anyone and as long as you don’t get in the way of where I am going then I have no problem with you. However, if you stand in my way then I’m going through you”. To some I know this isn’t the most positive thing to say, but who said everything what motivates has to be positive?

While I’m on the subject, I must address “labels” and the concept of labels. Through my recent self-reflections and self-discovery I realized I was living a life of a lie. By allowing people to box me in with their labels for me because of my basketball talent and knowledge, or because I coach, or because I’m an author, entrepreneur, and I motivate people, doesn’t mean I’m defined be those things. My talents doesn’t give people the right to tell me what I can or cannot do and better yet I shouldn’t allow people to place those expectations on me. Although, I am motivating and a role model doesn’t mean I am perfect and I shouldn’t cuss and should be held to a higher or lower standard. I fuck up too. (You see what I did there?)

I’m Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr, this is how I chose to be defined. I was living a lie of being happy being defined by my talents or what others saw of me. In reality, I am much more than my talents and what others chose to see me as. I realized by living within the labels others put on me I become a slave to them.

The best interview I heard all year was Mase’s interview with Angie Martinez. Everything he said in the interview I related to on so many levels. He spoke on self-reflecting, self-discovery, and how each day is a new life. He also spoke on how people say what he is or isn’t supposed to do because he is a pastor. He explained 1) “ I am Mason Betha before anything….” 2) “In order to tell me what I’m not suppose to do, you first have to do your research in what I believe….. All Christians don’t believe the same.” 3) “I am Spiritual not religious. Religion is based on laws. Spirituality has to deal with your personal relationship with the Almighty”. Think on all of this for a few moments.

Let me bring everything back to the “New Year New Me” and New Year’s resolutions. In order to become the new you in the New Year you must take everything day by day. This includes reflecting and discovering yourself each day. You must live, learn, and forgive yourself and others because bringing negative thoughts and feelings into the New Year will only keep you living in the past. The way to forgive is to understand that we don’t see things or believe the same. A new you emerge only by not living with labels that others place on you and by growing daily.

 

Here’s to the New You/New Me.

 

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Sell-Out and A NI$$@@

You Ain't Hungry Until I'm Starving

This is an excerpt from my first book You Ain’t Hungry Until I’m” Starving. I wrote this piece in 2006 after two men assaulted and called the girl I dated at the time a “nigger lover.” These two guys moments before tried to sell me a slice of their pizza as I headed inside to by my own pizza pie. Moments later these two guys threw the girl into oncoming traffic. I intervened to protect this young lady. Soon witnesses arrived and told me to get into my car. Next thing I know is I’m forced on the ground by seven police officers. Thank God for the witnesses and the crying lady saying I wasn’t the person in the wrong. At this time the two guys walked off. The polices officers did apologize and they did try to catch the guys who assaulted the young lady. The funny thing about this is earlier in the day I had a talk with a guy who lived in the “hood” I grew up in. He basically called me a “sell-out” for going to college and doing my best to better myself and the community.

Disturbed by the fact of no matter well you do or carry yourself some people will still see you as a “nigger”. While others will think you are “selling out” for striving to do better in order to uplift the community, no matter how true you stay to the community.

 

SELL-OUT AND A NIGGER

                   It’s sad that no matter what I accomplish in my life I will always be a nigger to you because of the color of my skin.  I’m tired of being harassed when I try to get into “your” so called bars, colleges, jobs, movies, etc.  All I want is to have the same opportunities that you have, but you consistently push me down. Why? Because I am of a darker complexion than you.

On the other hand, even some of my own race will consider me a sell-out for striving to make a difference and take advantage of the opportunities that are before me.  My brother, don’t you see that in bettering myself, I am bettering us – not as a single race but as the whole human race?  However, you do not see that – because all you see is that I am trying to be better than you – by going to school, having a career and not hanging out in the streets.

Well, my friends, how much do I have to prove to earn something in your eyes?   Whether you think that I haven’t struggled enough – or that I don’t know what it feels like to be treated as an outcast without a voice in this world – I’m certain that you have never experienced life’s struggles from my point of view.  Have you been excluded by other races and even some of your own people, despite the fact that you’re a respectable, hardworking, goal-driven human being? Have you consistently been discriminated against, felt like you did not have a voice, and we’re being prejudged before people even got to know you?  It’s frustrating and defeating to work as hard as I have, just to get knocked down on both fronts. But I will not give up.

I see what you try to deny.  That is, that both of you fear me – I am your worst nightmare.  I am the Dream that Dr. King envisioned.  I am diverse in my taste, my intellect, influences and activities.  Some of you treat me as a nigger because you’re scared to compete with me – so you try to disqualify me before the competing even begins.  However, I do not want to compete against you.  I just want to be afforded the same opportunities.  And some of you call me a sell out because you are afraid of trying, of succeeding, of getting out of your comfort zone. So, call me whatever you want – but I am neither the nigger, nor the sell-out.  In the meantime, I’m going to continue to take advantage of the opportunities before me – until you all can get it together and get on the bus.

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Inside of the Mind of a Saved Warrior Who’s Soul Bouncing His Way to the Top.

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Walt-Leon is a multi-talented artist and community leader who hails from the Hampton Roads area of Virginia. Walt-Leon has a drive that isn’t matched by many. He uplifts his community through his music, spoken words, and dance performances. He is a man of God who relates to those who may not be the most religious. His new song Soul Bounce is an example of how he can explain “adult like situations and still hold the attention of the youth”. Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr and 4-U-Nique Publishing goes one-on-one with Walt-Leon to learn his keys to success.

 

Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr:  Let me first start off by saying how proud I am of you and your movement. It seems like yesterday you were coming to the basketball courts to see me play and now you are a grown man who is uplifting the community in many ways.

You are a multi-talented person who has several endeavors going on like myself. I know how challenging it can be. How do you stay motivated and overcome the challenges?

Walt-Leon:  I am able to stay motivated by putting God first. It’s not about me. He created me with a purpose and blessed me with gifts. Who am I to say, “I don’t feel like doing it”? The next thing that motivates me is my, “Why”. I have two children and I cannot tell them, “Daddy didn’t feel like getting it done today, so I can’t take you to Busch Gardens”. They are counting on me to provide for them. I also want to see a change in the community and my focus is on the youth.

VLBJ:  You are a musician, choreographer, athlete, poet, and an upcoming author. What inspired you want to become all of these things?

WL:  Honestly, all of these are passions of mine; they are therapeutic for me. They keep my mind clear and bring me peace. Any way I can use my gifts and help someone develop and better themselves, I will. You never know who is watching and by using my gifts that someone may be ashamed of having, helps them to feel more comfortable being themselves. If one life is touched and changed for the better, I am satisfied. That one life can grow to change many more.

VLBJ:  You have a movement called “S.W.A.G”. Can you expand more about your movement?

WL:  S.W.A.G stands for Saved Warrior Anointed Generation. It’s a reminder that we are not who the media makes us out to be, but we are great. We were born to be great. It started as a song which was the first single off of my upcoming album entitled, Music Take Me Away. Now it’s grown to a full blown movement with the slogan, “I Got SWAG”, which came from a moment when I performed the song at Hampton University. The entire crowd was saying, “I Got Swag” back to me and it stuck with me.

VLBJ:  How do you balance your time between all your endeavors and your home life?

WL:  That’s the tough part (Laughs). My four year old daughter demands so much attention. I make sure she gets her time first. When she goes to bed is when I start to handle business as WALT-LEON. I sacrifice sleep to make sure I can handle as much as possible. I often have my daughter and son with me while handling business when they ask to go. So they can understand how to get into business for themselves and also so they can see what I’m actually doing when I’m not home. So when it’s their turn to be in charge they can already know how to operate.

VLBJ:  Who and what inspired you to travel the path to becoming who you are?

WL:  Everything that I do has always been a passion of mine, but I haven’t always been confident doing them. My family inspires me to keep going no matter what. The kids in the community also inspire me. At first I didn’t know they were paying attention until they started speaking up and saying, I make them feel like they can do whatever they want to do in life.

I pull inspiration from any and every little thing from books, to videos, to a child’s imagination, movies and more.

VLBJ:  Who are your biggest influences as a musician, choreographer, author, community leader, and poet?

WL:  As a musician I have my favorites such as Jay-Z of course; but artist like Sean C. Johnson, Sean Slaughter, Reed Dollaz, Reignman, Fred the Godson, Timeless Treez, Philmysoul, Billy Mercury, and more. The reality and hunger in their music speaks to me.

Influences as a choreographer are Muata Langley, Shaun Evaristo, Vernita Williams, Brian Puspos.

Authors I’m influenced by are you (Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr.) of course, Erica Spradley, and one of my favorite books is by Paulo Coelho.

Since birth I’ve watched community leaders fight for rights and just help people in general.  Two of the strongest I’ve seen are Edna Davis and Andrew Shannon.

My favorite poets are Godchild, LEVI, and Michelle “TuTu” Vinnie.

VLBJ:  I’m honored that I’m in your list of authors who influence you. Thank you. Let’s talk about your video that is causing a lot of buzz, Soul Bounce.  I love the song and video. Tell us how you came up with the concept of the song, as well as the video.

WL:  What’s crazy about this song is I got the beat for it in 2011 but I couldn’t find the right voice for the song. In 2016, I linked up with a guy named Carlos Anthony that I played basketball with growing up. I haven’t seen him since 2003. His voice was perfect for the song and we were finally able to record it. The concept of the song was to remind people no matter what you go through in life don’t let it break your spirit and if you look at any situation again, you can find something positive worth rejoicing. The hook is actually the directions to the line dance. At the same time it is what we do in everyday life. We often fall off of our path and go left or right, but we always have a chance to straighten out. Then we get to celebrate once we make it through the obstacle and what was supposed to break us only made us stronger and we used it as motivation instead of as an excuse.

The song had a summer fun skating rink feel to it, so I really wanted people from the community to come have fun and enjoy themselves and be a part of something that they can look back on forever. Once releasing the video, it picked up 8,000 plus views on Facebook in the first week.

VLBJ:  You just signed on to publish your book through my company 4-U-Nique Publishing. Why did you decide to write a book and what is it about? 

WL:  I decided to write a book because I ran across a lot of people who will sit on Facebook and Instagram for 30 minutes at a time but say they don’t have time to read. I decided to write a book which would be 1-2 minute daily reads. Each insert is a daily motivation to get your day started. I was inspired by excuses of others to write something they don’t have an excuse to not read. Starting your day with positivity is critical with all the negative the media puts out.

VLBJ:  Out of all the other publishing companies, why did you decide to let 4-U-Nique Publishing work with you on your book?

WL:  4-U-Nique welcomed me and made me feel comfortable as a first time author. When explaining all of the details, you all was honest and broke everything down into terms that someone, who isn’t a publisher, would understand. Built a trusting relationship and the lines of communication have been open for me to ask any questions. I’ve seen the quality of what 4-U-Nique Publishing produces and I love it.

VLBJ:  What are your other goals and aspirations?

WL:  My main goal is to be the best father my children can ask for and to break generational curses that linger in the community. To help others remember, with God they can do anything. I was blessed with many different talents and I love using every one of them. I really want to get into real estate. Once I get the album out, the book out, and one or two more shirts out, I will expand into the real estate side of things. My company TouchLife is about changing lives and being a positive impact on a person’s life anyway you come in contact with them.

VLBJ:  What are your best tips for dealing with creator’s block and staying creative?

WL:  My best tip is to always be teachable. You can learn from a child, from nature, from animals, etc. Always be teachable. Don’t force it. The moment you feel like you’re forcing an idea, step away and you may be inspired be something completely different which will get your creative juices flowing again.

VLBJ:  Can you tell us about your creating process?

WL:  I’m an insomniac, so most of my creativity starts going around 2 am. I often turn on music and cartoons. Being that my focus is for the youth to have something positive and I’m artsy, I watch cartoons and sometimes get a metaphor that the children can relate to while explaining an adult like situation. This way I can reach adults while keeping the attention of the youth.

I love to drive. I will take an 8 hour road trip in a heartbeat. A lot of my creating is done in the car, so I put a lot in my voice memos. Once I come to a stop, I put a rough draft in one of my notebooks. When something is seriously bothering me, I will go sit out by the water and write down what’s bothering me. Then I find a positive way to flip it, so instead of being angry and making someone else relive their anger, I can now have a way to help someone get over what they are going through and not feel alone.

VLBJ:  Do you have any advice for anyone who wants to make a positive difference in their community?

WL:  Don’t let anyone discourage you. People who laugh at your idea or talk down about it, is simply because they don’t understand. The same ones who laugh are the same ones who will thank you and congratulate you. The only way they will understand what you are saying is by seeing you in action doing it. Someone else is waiting for you to fulfill your purpose and execute the idea you have to make your community better. KEEP GOING!!!

VLBJ:  Where are people most likely to see your works? 

WL:  People are most likely to see my work on social media; Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and YouTube. I am in the process of discussing a website with a web designer and possibly an app as well.

VLBJ:  Do you have any funny or interesting stories to tell us about a project you’ve worked?

WL:  I play a lot, so every project I work, song, album, etc. has an interesting story. I’m going through a situation now honestly, which is why the album is entitled, Music Take Me Away.

I’m the goofy one, so I’m always falling and I can’t play anything off because as soon as it happens my daughter always screams, “Ahhh that’s what you get” (Laughs). I would be here for days discussing interesting stories.  

VLBJ:  If you could be anything in the world, what would you be?

WL:  I would be an international artist. This way I can travel the world for a living and take my children to see the world. Give me more to talk about to inspire the children in my community and communities around the world that there is more to the world then the city you live in. I’ll be able to post pictures and show them what I mean instead of just speaking about it.

VLBJ:  Do you have any upcoming events or promotions?

WL:  Yes, I will be interviewing with DJ DirtyDi on August 6th. August 12th, I’ll teach a workshop where the headline artist will be stellar award winning artist, Bri Babineaux. On August 19th, 2017, the album will be released. I’m also booked to perform at a community day and I have an interview on the Leroy and Janice Butler morning show on 940am radio in Virginia on August 19th. I’ll perform at Andrew Shannon Gospel Music Celebration during the Southeast Day Parade and Festival in September. Just to name a few.

VLBJ:  Awesome. DJ DirtyDi did an interview with me at the beginning of the year. She is definitely doing big things. Where can people reach you at? What social media channels? Websites?

WL:  I can be reached on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/waltleonmusic. Instagram and Twitter as @walt_leon and on YouTube as WaltLeonMusicTV.

VLBJ:  Is there anything else you want people to know?

WL:  I want people to know, whatever they put their mind to they can do. Make sure your why is bigger than your excuse and you will accomplish just about every goal you set out to accomplish. My company slogan is what I tell people whenever I get a chance, “See A Life, Touch A Life, Change A Life.

 

Don’t forget to check out Walt-Leon’s new video Soul Bounce.

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Life is short

The only certainty in Life is Death.

Is Death a part of Life

Or is Life a part of Death?

Only thing I’m sure of is we lost too many too young

Robbing us of future memories together

While leaving us of past memories.

Life is short

And Death is a friend we don’t want to see soon.

Let’s not fear Death

Or take life for granted.

We should use our time living to the fullest

But take time to reflect on moments passed.

Life is short

But a Life of Regrets is a long Life to live.

So tell your loved ones you love them

Spend your time wisely

And don’t waste your life living in fear

Or being unhappy.

Life is short

So why waste it hating others?

Death is certain

So why not leave a positive Legacy behind?

Time is all that we are given

So why not be a Blessing to the world

Before our time runs out?

 

Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr is the author of You Ain’t Until I’m Starving, Getting Out of the Dark: How to Live a Life Full of Success, Wealth, and Happiness, and Vid’s Viddles: Daily Vitamins for the Soul, all available here

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7 Easy Steps for Creating Balance In Your Life

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We live in an age where the average person is always on the go. Throughout the day we are hustling and bustling between work, taking care of daily needs, and doing for others. In a world where we are attached to our phones and many things are convenient for us, we seem to live our lives without any balance.  Many people don’t know why living a balanced life is important (find out here) and how to live a balanced life. Below are some tips on how to find balance in your life, so you can achieve more success, wealth, and happiness.

Things to remember:  Life is about balance. Once you are at either side of extremes, (all work or all play), you naturally become unfulfilled. Being balanced keeps you leveled and fulfilled.

1) Me Time.

Me” time for me consists of meditating and being in your own thoughts by yourself for a while.  During this period you should assess your life, connect to your inner voice, find solutions to issues, and find your passions in life.

2) Plan and Life Set Goals in Every Area of Your.

Planning a schedule and setting goals in all areas of your life will help you be accountable for spending time and energy in different areas of your life so you can become balance. It is important to spend equal energy in all areas of your life.  If you are devoted to your work, you must be equally devoted to your family, your personal time, and play time. If you do not spend the same energy in all areas of your life issues will arise and spread to other areas of your life.

***Remember, time and energy aren’t the same, so you may spend more time in one area opposed to another area, which is fine.***

3) Learn How to Say No!

If you are like most people you do not like disappointing others and turning them down.  To have balance in your life and become successful, you have to learn how to say “no” more and “yes” less when people ask you for your time and energy. If you spend all your time doing for others, when will you have time for yourself?  A balanced life consists of being there for others, as well as having time for you.

*** Although we love people and things, we shouldn’t feel guilty when we need a break from them. Taking a small break will  help you value these relationships, people and things even more. ***

4) Take Risks and Make Sacrifices.

You must take risks and make sacrifices to change. These risks and sacrifices do not have to be major; even a small change is a significant change. If you are unhappy with your job situation, take the risk in going for a promotion or leaving your job to chase your dream job.  If you don’t find enough time in your day to sit and meditate, make the sacrifice to get up earlier so you can have quiet time for yourself  and be alone with your inner thoughts.  Make the sacrifice of doing less for others so you can do more for yourself. Take the risk of facing your fears and living your life to the fullest.

5) Reflection.

In You Ain’t Hungry Until I’m Starving and Vid’s Viddles: Daily Vitamins for the Soul, I wrote a few pieces on how important daily reflection is in our lives.  You should reflect about your day every night before bed. When you reflect you should realize at least one thing you learned during the day, you should see the good things you did throughout the day, and you should see what you need to improve on going forward.  Reflection helps you take a moment to sit and enjoy all that you have done, appreciate yourself more, see what you need to work on in all areas of your life, and plan for the next day.

6) Take a Break.

I live by the rule of, “if something that you love doing becomes a chore and you start despising it, it is time to step away for a while”. Routines are great, but living life all the time by a routine will lead you to become burnt out and lose passion for the things you once enjoyed. A balance life consists of having a routine in certain areas and being spontaneous in other areas. By having a mix of both will keep life exciting.

7) Exercise.

You know by now that exercise is essential for living a healthy life. What you may not know is exercising your mind, body, and soul is key to obtaining a balanced life.  Life is about growing and changing. You cannot expect to be successful, happy, or balanced if you aren’t stimulating your mind, awaking your soul, and being physically active.

By practicing these 7 steps you will have a balanced life and be on your way to a more successful, wealthier, and happier life.  To find out why having a balanced life is important please click here.

Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr is the author of You Ain’t Until I’m Starving, Getting Out of the Dark: How to Live a Life Full of Success, Wealth, and Happiness, and Vid’s Viddles: Daily Vitamins for the Soul, all available here

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True Kings Society – Empowering the Community Through Love and Hope

FullSizeRender (5)If you have been following Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr. you may have noticed the eye catching shirts with powerful messages that he has been wearing.  These messages promote “More Love, Less Hate”, as well as looking past our ethnicity and focusing on being united as “Humans”. Recently,  Mr. Buggs and 4-U-Nique Publishing caught up with founders and owners of True Kings Society the brand Vid loves to endorse.  Like 4-U-Nique Publishing, True Kings Society prides itself as being unique and diverse, while providing a message of hope, love, and empowerment. 

 

4-U-Nique Publishing:  Tell us about yourselves and what True Kings Society is about.

True Kings Society:      We are lifelong friends. Both of us graduated from Hillsborough High School in Tampa, FL. We both envisioned a way to be successful as well as help the community. These goals were the forces that created True Kings Society. True Kings Society is a brand who focuses on the Black Community Empowerment and influencing our Culture to live Royally!

4UNP:   What made you two get involved in fashion?

TKS:     Growing up we both had sense of style. We figured we could use the fashion industry to spread influential messages we look to bring through our Brand.

4UNP:   What sets you apart from others who are in the fashion industry?

TKS:     We feel that we are in a totally different lane than other brands because we don’t just sell fashion. We sell hope, love, and empowerment.

4UNP:   What advice would you have for anyone looking to get into fashion?

TKS:     Don’t compromise; don’t follow trends; and use fashion as a way to express yourself. Also, when things seem tough, keep God first and work harder.

4UNP:   If you could work with or hold a conversation with anyone past, present, or future who would they be?

Eric:     I would definitely go back and talk to the 12 year old version of myself. With all the knowledge life has given me, I could save my younger self from future pain and struggle.

Andre:  I would want to talk to the world’s first black billionaire to spend some time picking their brain, to find out how they mapped their way to such an amazing financial status, even with the struggles presented today for most people.

4UNP:   Who are you inspirations personally and in the fashion world?

Eric:     My personal inspirations would be Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, Tupac, and my dad. In the fashion world it would be Sean Combs and Daymond John.

Andre:  My personal inspirations would be my mom who is my hero and my late uncle Daron Avery. Daymond John would be my fashion industry inspiration because I see many similarities in how both of our dreams came about.

4UNP:   What is the most recent book you’ve read? Who are your favorite authors?

Eric:     The most recent book I read was Revolutionary Suicide by Henry P. Newton. My favorite author would be Michael E. Dickerson.

Andre:  I recently read Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki.  I am currently reading Daymond John’s Power of Broke. I don’t really have a favorite author because I’m a fan of everyone honestly.

4UNP:   Shameless plug. You both need to read You Ain’t Hungry Until I’m Starving by Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr. and other books published by 4-U-Nique Publishing. You will really be doing yourself a favor.

4UNP:   What are your 2017 goals?

TKS:     2017 goals will be expanding our business as well as becoming more involved in our community.

4UNP:   Where can our audience find your apparel? DO you have a website? Any Social Media platforms?

TKS:     Currently we have Facebook and Instagram pages active @truekingssociety. We also have merchandise available for purchase on our website truekingssociety.bigcartel.com .

4UNP:   What message do you want to leave with anyone reading this interview?

TKS:     Never try to plan for God’s plan, go in the direction he leads you.

 

Go to http://www.truekingssocietybigcartel.com to get your shirts today. All supporters of 4-U-Nique Publishing and Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr. are able to use code: Kings, for a special discount.

Vid Lamonte’ Buggs Jr is the author of You Ain’t Hungry Until I’m Starving and Vid’s Viddles. Copyright© 2017 http://www.vidbuggs.com. Copyright © 2017 http://www.4-U-NiquePublishing.com. Material is copyrighted but free to repost with proper listed credit, including our website addresses.